Bøger af Caroline Madden

"Virginity is one of the major adolescent rites of passage, one which has been explored in the coming-of-age film genre for many decades. This book examines the evolution of teen movies over the past 40 years, posing crucial questions about how film shapes our cultural understanding of virginity. By surveying more than 30 mainstream and independent coming-of-age films from the 1980s to the present, it considers what types of first-time sexual experiences are being portrayed on screen, how they are different for men and women, and whether or not they are subverting or reinforcing gender stereotypes. Drawing from notable teen movies such as Dirty Dancing (1987), American Pie (1999), Real Women Have Curves (2002), Lady Bird (2017), and Plan B (2021), the book identifies a progressive shift towards more sex-positive and feminist representations of first-time sexual experiences on screen. Each chapter studies how the political climate, sex education policies, and cultural norms specific to each era impact the film's release and its teenage audience."--

You are a good man who made a bad decision. You were unfaithful in your marriage.You love your wife, and now that you see clearly what your infidelity has done to her, you are incredibly sorry that you have hurt her so much.You want to save your marriage. You don't want to lose your family. I know that you are doing your best to regain your wife's trust, but no matter what you do, you seem to make it worse. She has so many questions about your affair. So. Many. Questions.Not only is your wife furious, but she's also emotionally volatile. Sometimes she seems to love you more deeply than ever, and other times she kicks you out of the house.You are on a roller coaster. You want your marriage back, but you're not sure how to help your wife trust you again and move forward. She doesn't know what she wants, and her volatility exhausts and upsets you. You both are stuck.My name is Dr. Caroline Madden. I've been a marriage and family therapist in Los Angeles for two decades. I have helped countless couples restore their marriages after infidelity.I've seen women just like your wife go through the whole process--from uncovering their husbands' affair to making it to the other side, heart healed and marriage restored. I have heard their innermost thoughts and concerns as they try to process their husbands' betrayal. I know what specific stages your wife will experience. I know what prevents women from moving forward, and I know what women need in order to trust and forgive.Most importantly, I know the things men say and do that they think are helpful but that actually make things worse. Simply put, you are probably doing things that would help you heal if this happened to you. But you aren't married to another man, you are married to a woman! Women process things differently. That's the root cause of why all your well-meaning efforts are horribly backfiring.This book is a practical action plan that will walk you through the predictable stages after your wife has discovered your infidelity. Learn the tools to fix your marriage. Avoid the (sometimes fatal) mistakes I've seen so many men make.In this book, you'll learn the things your wife is going to feel, say, and do, giving you the following: Insight into what she is thinking and why this is so hard for her to get overPractical advice so you know exactly what to do at this important stageActual scripts so you know what to say in response to very specific situationsClear explanations as to why certain words and actions you think will be helpful might be making this worse.Two self-administered quizzes to help you determine why you cheated so that you can get a better understanding of what triggered your affair.Included at the appropriate points are scripts of what to say and why you need to say those words at that time. You will want to translate the scripts into your own natural wording, using the meaning of each script as a launching pad for productive, healing dialogue with your wife.Also, these other questions are answered: She doesn't know. I feel guilty. Should I tell her the truth?We aren't married yet? How does that impact recovering from the affair?I didn't have a physical relationship with my Affair Partner, why is my wife so upset?What is an Emotional Affair?This is the most important time for you to get things right, because your wife is actively deciding at this stage whether or not she wants to stay with you.Buy "After a Good Man Cheats" today.

When your partner loses a parent, you may find yourself wanting to provide support but unsure about how to practically offer grief support. To make matters worse, your spouse may not be aware of what they want or need either. You desire to bring comfort without unintentionally saying or doing anything insensitive. "When Your Spouse Loses a Parent" addresses these concerns and more: How should we explain death to our children?Is it normal for my spouse to suddenly talk about making significant life changes?How will my spouse's grief impact sexual intimacy in our marriage?What are the warning signs that indicate my spouse may benefit from grief counseling, therapy, or a grief support group?What are the five stages of grief, and how can I identify which stage my spouse is in?Why has the death of a particular family member affected our marriage so profoundly?Additionally, a list of other bereavement books and resources for grief and loss is included.During this time, your partner may exhibit behaviors that seem unusual. Understanding the grieving process will enable you to genuinely offer assistance. While it can be challenging for your relationship, being prepared will help strengthen your marital bond. Purchase "When Your Spouse Loses a Parent: What to Say and What to Do" to acquire the necessary skills to support your partner during this difficult period of grieving and bereavement.

"From Soul Mates to Roommates: A Tongue-in-Cheek Guide to Keeping the Spark Alive!"Looking for a hilarious yet insightful book to spice up your marriage? Look no further! "From Soul Mates to Roommates" is the ultimate guide to transforming your once passionate relationship into a mundane cohabitation adventure. This book is not just a bridal shower gift; it's a survival kit for couples looking to add some excitement back into their lives!Dr. Caroline Madden, marriage therapist takes you on a journey through the pitfalls of long-term relationships with wit and wisdom. With her direct and straightforward style, she spills the secrets of why good relationships go bad and provides practical solutions to keep the flames burning.Whether you're a newlywed couple navigating the early stages of marriage or a seasoned duo facing the dreaded roommate syndrome, this book has something for everyone. Inside, you'll discover: The real reason why most date nights end in disappointment (hint: it's not what you think!)Surprising insights into what intimacy means to men (prepare for some eye-opening revelations!)Tips and tricks for the stay-at-home spouse to keep the romance alive amidst daily routines.Proven strategies for reigniting the physical passion that's been lost along the way.How everyday criticism unknowingly chips away at your partner's sense of love and appreciation.But this book isn't all seriousness and solemn advice. Caroline Madden infuses humor into her marriage counsel, ensuring you'll be entertained as you learn how to rekindle the fire. Discover how laughter, quality time, and a dash of silliness can be the secret ingredients to surviving even the toughest times.Perfect for bridal showers and wedding gifts, "From Soul Mates to Roommates" is a must-have for any couple looking to keep their marriage alive. So, grab a copy today and embark on a delightful journey toward rediscovering the love, passion, and joy that first brought you together!

You always said if your man cheated, you'd leave him so fast his head would spin. But now that it's happened it's not so black and white, is it?Dr. Caroline Madden, MFT is an affair recovery specialist. She works with couples dealing with serious problems in their relationships. In Fool Me Once , she shares the criteria she uses to determine if a man is truly remorseful and determined to save his marriage.Here is some of the information she shares: 5 Things That Look Suspicious (But Probably Aren't) 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him Another Chance 7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again)Infidelity is traumatic, and you need to take time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once will give you the tools you need to evaluate your relationship. It will help you determine whether you should trust your husband or not and decide if your marriage is worth saving.Don't Make a Decision Now That You'll Regret Later!As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." From the Author: An affair doesn't mean your marriage is over and you need to seek advice on how to divorce your husband. How do I know this? I am an Affair Recovery Specialist, serving as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California. I work almost exclusively with adults with significant relationship problems. Dealing with the aftermath of affairs is my specialty. I'll tell you what strong women do. They sit back and let the dust settle.Right now, you are one of those snow globes you pick up as a souvenir when you travel. You are all shaken up, and you need to let some of those snowflakes settle to gain clarity as to what the picture is. You may not realize it, but you are in a state of trauma right now, so you shouldn't be making any big decisions just yet. That includes putting your house up for sale, putting all his stuff in the street, calling the affair partner's husband, and/or telling everyone in the world that he cheated on you. When you regain your composure, these are all things you will regret. Trust me.As a therapist, I help women like you determine if the man who has betrayed them should be trusted or not. In some cases, I help them decide if the relationship itself is worth saving, even if the unfaithful man seems sincerely repentant. If you are like most women I see in your situation, you are thinking that there is no way your relationship can survive this explosion. Believe it or not, statistics prove that many couples survive affairs.You probably feel like you will never be capable of trusting him again, and forgiveness may seem impossible right now. However, relationships do evolve and grow stronger if both parties are truly committed to working things out. I see it happen all the time. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

A catalogue nearly fifty years in the making, Bruce Springsteen's music remains popular and a frequent subject of study yet little critical attention has been given to its inclusion in film and television. This book examines a selection of films and TV shows from the 1980s to the present that feature Springsteen's music on the soundtrack.