Bøger af William Ury

FÅ JA NÅR DU FORHANDLER præsenterer en simpel, universelt anvendelig metode til at gennemføre såvel forhandlinger om private, personlige konflikter som forhandlinger i embeds medfør – med godt resultat uden brug af mindre pæne metoder.FÅ JA NÅR DU FORHANDLER fremlægger en gennemprøvet, præcis og veltilrettelagt forhandlingsstrategi. Ved at følge bogens anvisninger bliver du i stand til at nå forhandlingsresultater, der er til fordel for begge parter og dermed et godt grundlag for fremtidige relationer til forhandlingspartneren. Bogens strategi kan anvendes med succes i alle slags forhandlinger, fra familiestridigheder til internationale overenskomster.FÅ JA NÅR DU FORHANDLER fortæller, hvordan du bærer dig ad med at holde personen og problemet adskilt, fokusere på interesser, ikke på standpunkter – og etablere præcise mål ved forhandlingernes start. Hvordan du samarbejder om at finde frem til gensidigt fordelagtige forslag og forhandler med modstandere, der er stærkere, som ikke følger spillereglerne eller bruger beskidte tricks.FÅ JA NÅR DU FORHANDLER hviler på videnskabelige undersøgelser i forbindelse med The Harvard Negotiation Project. Bogen repræsenterer en milepæl i forhandlingsteknikkens udvikling og giver dig et værktøj i hænde, som kan gøre dine forhandlinger mere resultatrige.

The most powerful word in the language is one that most people find difficult to say. Yet when we know how to use it correctly, it has the power to profoundly transform our lives. That word is 'No'.In Getting to Yes, William Ury helped millions of people across the world discover how to transform their working and personal relationships by saying Yes. In this wise and insightful 'prequel' to the international bestseller, Ury asserts that, although you may be able to say Yes, you cannot get to the right Yes until you know how to say No.Most of us are reluctant to say No when we fear the word could spoil relationships with bosses; lose the deal with clients or upset family members. This indispensable book will help readers know whether and how to say No and provides a simple, proven five-step solution and tried and tested techniques to tackle this everyday dilemma.

No is perhaps the most important and certainly the most powerful word in the language. Every day we find ourselves in situations where we need to say Noto people at work, at home, and in our communitiesbecause No is the word we must use to protect ourselves and to stand up for everything and everyone that matters to us. But as we all know, the wrong No can also destroy what we most value by alienating and angering people. Thats why saying No the right way is crucial. The secret to saying No without destroying relationships lies in the art of the Positive No, a proven technique that anyone can learn. This indispensable book gives you a simple three-step method for saying a Positive No. It will show you how to assert and defend your key interests; how to make your No firm and strong; how to resist the other sides aggression and manipulation; and how to do all this while still getting to Yes. In the end, the Positive No will help you get not just to any Yes but to the right Yes, the one that truly serves your interests. Based on William Urys celebrated Harvard University course for managers and professionals, The Power of a Positive No offers concrete advice and practical examples for saying No in virtually any situation. Whether you need to say No to your customer or your coworker, your employee or your CEO, your child or your spouse, you will find in this book the secret to saying No clearly, respectfully, and effectively. In todays world of high stress and limitless choices, the pressure to give in and say Yes grows greater every day, producing overload and overwork, expanding e-mail and eroding ethics. Never has No been more needed. A Positive No has the power to profoundly transform our lives by enabling us to say Yes to what countsour own needs, values, and priorities. Understood this way, No is the new Yes. And the Positive No may be the most valuable life skill youll ever learn!

In his highly anticipated follow up to the bestselling "e;Getting to Yes: Negotiation Agreement Without Giving"e;, Harvard University's world renowned negotiation expert William Ury provides the definitive guide to attaining success at work and at home. Drawing upon decades of experience in some of the world's most challenging conflict areas - from million-dollar corporate mergers to high profile Middle Eastern struggles - Ury highlights a previously unexamined issue which affects us all, personally and professionally: the biggest obstacle to achieving what we want comes from our own self-destructive actions. In his brilliant new book, Ury outlines practical strategies for dealing with the inner conflicts that hinder our successes. From tactics for dealing with an untrustworthy work colleague, to methods for handling a divorce conversation, and coming out on top, "e;Getting to Yes with Yourself"e; outlines universal techniques for success in seven compelling chapters. Fresh and insightful, "e;Getting to Yes with Yourself"e; will transform the way you approach your life.

Este libro profundiza en el tema de la negociación con uno mismo y en las dinámicas personales de esa negociación, en lugar de centrarse en los factores exteriores. El objetivo final de Obtenga el sí consigo mismo es mejorar la capacidad del lector para alcanzar un equilibrio interior que contribuirá a mejorar su vida, hará sus relaciones más saludables y conseguirá que su carrera sea más exitosa. El proceso incluye los siguientes pasos: - Superar el juicio negativo sobre nosotros mismos para alcanzar la autocomprensión. - Superar la culpa para llegar a la autorresponsabilidad. - Superar la visión de escasez para llegar a la abundancia. - Superar la resistencia para alcanzar un estado de flujo. - Superar la exclusión para llegar a la inclusión. - Del gano-pierdes al gano-ganas. ENGLISH DESCRIPTION William Ury, coauthor of the international bestseller Getting to Yes, returns with another groundbreaking book, this time asking: how can we expect to get to yes with others if we haven't first gotten to yes with ourselves? Renowned negotiation expert William Ury has taught tens of thousands of people from all walks of life--managers, lawyers, factory workers, coal miners, schoolteachers, diplomats, and government officials--how to become better negotiators. Over the years, Ury has discovered that the greatest obstacle to successful agreements and satisfying relationships is not the other side, as difficult as they can be. The biggest obstacle is actually our own selves--our natural tendency to react in ways that do not serve our true interests. But this obstacle can also become our biggest opportunity, Ury argues. If we learn to understand and influence ourselves first, we lay the groundwork for understanding and influencing others. In this prequel to Getting to Yes, Ury offers a seven-step method to help you reach agreement with yourself first, dramatically improving your ability to negotiate with others. Practical and effective, Getting to Yes with Yourself helps readers reach good agreements with others, develop healthy relationships, make their businesses more productive, and live far more satisfying lives

The author of the world's best-selling book on negotiation draws on his nearly fifty years of experience and knowledge grappling with the world's toughest conflicts to offer a way out of the seemingly impossible problems of our time. Conflict is increasing everywhere, threatening everything we hold dear?from our families to our democracy, from our workplaces to our world. In nearly every area of society, we are fighting more and collaborating less, especially over crucial problems that demand solutions.With this groundbreaking book, bestselling author and international negotiator William Ury shares a new ?path to possible??time-tested practices that will help readers unlock their power to constructively engage and transform conflict. Part memoir, part manual, part manifesto, Possible offers stories and sage advice from Ury's nearly 50 years of experience on the front lines of some of the world's toughest conflicts.One of the world's top experts in the field, Ury has worked on conflicts ranging from boardroom battles to labor strikes, from the US partisan divide to family feuds, from wars in the Middle East, Colombia and Ukraine to helping the US and USSR avoid nuclear disaster. Now, in Possible, he helps us tackle the seemingly intransigent problems facing us.In Possible, Ury argues conflict is natural. In fact, we need more conflict, not less?if we are to grow, change, evolve and solve our problems creatively. While we may not be able to end conflict, we can transform it?unleashing new, unexpected possibilities.Successfully tested at Harvard University with almost a thousand participants from business, government, academia, and the nonprofit sector, Ury's ?Path to Possible? proved so valuable that Harvard's Program on Negotiation selected it as its inaugural online daylong in April 2022.Possible introduces Ury's methods and makes them available for everyone. Combining accessible frameworks and powerful storytelling and offering dozens of examples, it is an essential guide for anyone looking to break through the toughest conflicts?in their workplace, family, community or the world.

Cómo superar los obstáculos que se presentan en una negociación y salirte con la tuyaWilliam Ury nos enseña a superar el NO. El método de este gurú de la negociación no se basa en vencer a tus oponentes por la vía de la argumentación y de la fuerza, sino en ganártelos, invitándolos a reflexionar para que rectifiquen su postura y se acerquen a tus planteamientos. De este modo conseguirás salirte con la tuya, llevarte el gato al agua y que, además, tu adversario crea que, en realidad, quien ha salido más beneficiado es él. En Supere el no encontrarás también técnicas de éxito probado para minimizar las rivalidades cuando la negociación se torna discusión, y hallarás soluciones creativas para satisfacer las necesidades de ambas partes. Tras la lectura de Supere el no, tus negociaciones nunca volverán a enquistarse y, sobre todo, nunca te irás con menos de lo que pretendías conseguir.