Seksuelle overgreb og seksuel chikane

Statistically speaking, you or someone you know has experienced a sexual violation. There's also a high chance that you or someone you know caused one. Perhaps these incidents had a clear perpetrator and victim. Or maybe you've encountered one of the more complicated situations where it's not quite so obvious that one person intentionally hurt another. Violated focuses on that messy place of unintentional, thoughtless, or perhaps even reckless consent violations. It challenges us to rethink the way gender and dating norms, intentionality, and intoxication have come to frame our social understanding of sexual consent and discusses what you, your organizations, and your government can do to help reduce the scope of sexual violation. But more than anything, this book argues that we need to develop more realistic models of "good consent" for the world we actually live in.

Forgiveness is held to be an unqualified moral good, but in cases of abuse and systemic wrong, the expectation to forgive harms victims, minimizes real harm, and lets perpetrators off the hook. Journalist and culture critic Kaya Oakes surveys theology, history, psychology, and pop culture to ask the question: Is it ever better not to forgive?

For fifty years, John kept silent about the abuse and the trauma it caused him, trauma that echoed throughout his adult life. He didn't tell his family. He didn't tell friends. Now he speaks.

An invaluable guide to understanding and dismantling sexism for parents trying to raise confident and powerful girls in a culture that often demeans them.The world is full of mixed messages for girls: Stand up for yourself but do it softly. Be independent but not single. Love your body, just make sure it’s waxed, bleached, and thin. And then there are the more overt hostilities: being talked over, paid less, touched without permission, and having politicians debate their right to bodily autonomy. Many parents find it simpler to affirm girls’ strength than to address these distressing experiences directly. But with girls’ skyrocketing rates of depression, anxiety, and suicide, parenting them in this culture presents an urgent challenge: How do we teach girls to recognize and cope with these realities without crushing their optimism and belief that they can incite change?Jo-Ann Finkelstein, a Harvard-educated psychologist, has more than two decades of experience working with girls, helping them find resilience in the face of toxic messages about beauty, sex, and femininity. In Sexism & Sensibility, she draws on real stories from her practice to unpack the effects of sexism in its many guises. Going beyond girl power and full of smart, constructive ways to help girls make sense of things, it includes • how to talk about misogyny, gender stereotyping, objectification, and consent—at different ages• strategies for fine-tuning our daughters’ natural “sexism detectors” and safeguarding their self-esteem • ways to help girls spot and contest the microaggressions they face in school, in the media, in relationships, and in public• how to recognize and combat sexism in our own parentingWe can’t shield our daughters from gender bias and sexism, but we can make sure that they are more prepared to handle it than we ever were. Sexism & Sensibility is an eye-opening and essential resource for proactive parenting.

Året er 1960, og Oliva Denaro er seksten år gammel. Hun bor i en lille siciliansk by, hvor hun konstant er udsat for sin mors advarsler og formaninger. En af dem lyder: ’En kvinde er som en kande. Den, der ødelægger hende, må tage hende.’Oliva elsker at løbe, indtil lungerne brænder, og at samle snegle og frøer med sin far. Men hun bryder sig ikke om tanken om at blive kvinde, da hun ved, at hun så vil blive genstand for mændenes blikke og tilnærmelser.Dagen kommer, hvor Oliva bliver kvinde, og konditorens søn, Pino Paternò, begynder at gøre kur til hende. ’En kvinde, der smiler, har sagt ja,’ lyder en anden af Olivas mors talemåder. Oliva gør da også, hvad hun kan for at afvise den unge mand, men han fortsætter ufortrødent sit uønskede frieri og tvinger Oliva til at kæmpe for retten til at vælge sin egen vej.OLIVA DENARO er en uforglemmelig roman, der foregår i 1960’ernes Sicilien og er baseret på en sand historie om, hvordan en ung siciliansk pige trodsede en århundreder gammel tradition for at vinde retten til at kontrollere sit eget liv.

Den smukke gårdmandsdatter Dora har altid gjort nar af Peder, fordi han er af jævne kår. Senere bliver Peder forkarl hos familien, men Dora behandler ham fortsat som skidt. En aften bliver det for meget for Peder; han overfalder pigen og erkender bagefter sin brøde til stor sorg for hendes familie. Han kommer i fængsel, og her møder han andre unge mænd, hvis skæbne minder om hans. Sammen forsøger de at klare sig i fængslet og i verden udenfor. Den danske forfatter Lars Nielsen (1892-1963) debuterede i 1938 med bogen "Bo", og siden da er det blevet til over 60 romaner. Langt de fleste af Lars Nielsens bøger foregår i landdistrikter og følger slægters gang, men de har også ofte en udpræget psykologisk vinkel, der gør dem tidløse og relevante uanset hvilket miljø, de læses i. Udgivelsen er en storskrift-udgave til svagsynede i serien MAGNUMBØGER Lindhardt og Ringhof.

Young Maria is a joyful, high-spirited girl who grows up on the East coast in the early 2000s. She lives with her three sisters and mother. Maria and her sisters endure poverty, emotional abuse and neglect by their mother, Regina. Regina's life is focused on her own needs, love affairs and pain killers. The irresponsible parenting leaves her children vulnerable to a predator.Tony is a family friend that hides behind the disguise of his church and claims to be 'a man of God.' He invades the family by offering Regina help with baby-sitting, stocking the refrigerator and surprising the children with gifts. In plain sight, Tony preys on Maria. His abuse makes her become isolated, groomed and manipulated. As she grows up, Maria realizes that she is stuck under the reign of Tony's control. Will she decide to save herself? Or continue to let Tony destroy the light that is left within her?

The poems in T'shuvah consider the question of what it means to "return" from the alienation that is inherent in surviving sexual violence.

"An examination of the physical and sexual abuse perpetrated by Ashtanga yoga leader Pattabhi Jois and the culture, structures, and mythos that enabled it, grounded in investigative research and real survivor stories"--

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • LOS ANGELES TIMES BESTSELLERIn this spectacular, newsmaking exposé that has the entertainment industry abuzz and on its heels, Vanity Fair's Maureen Ryan blows the lid on patterns of harassment and bias in Hollywood, the grassroots reforms under way, and the labor and activist revolutions that recent scandals have ignited.It is never just One Bad Man.Abuse and exploitation of workers is baked into the very foundations of the entertainment industry. To break the cycle and make change that sticks, it's important to stop looking at headline-making stories as individual events. Instead, one must look closely at the bigger picture, to see how abusers are created, fed, rewarded, allowed to persist, and, with the right tools, how they can be excised.In Burn It Down, veteran reporter Maureen Ryan does just that. She draws on decades of experience to connect the dots and illuminate the deeper forces sustaining Hollywood's corrosive culture. Fresh reporting sheds light on problematic situations at companies like Lucasfilm and shows like Lost, Saturday Night Live, The Goldbergs, Sleepy Hollow, Curb Your Enthusiasm and more.Interviews with actors and famous creatives like Evan Rachel Wood, Harold Perrineau, Damon Lindelof, and Orlando Jones abound. Ryan dismantles, one by one, the myths that the entertainment industry promotes about itself, which have allowed abusers to thrive and the industry to avoid accountability?myths about Hollywood as a meritocracy, what it takes to be creative, the value of human dignity, and more.Weaving together insights from industry insiders, historical context, and pop-culture analysis, Burn It Down paints a groundbreaking and urgently necessary portrait of what's gone wrong in the entertainment world?and how we can fix it.