Bøger af Florence Hartley

"The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness" is a 19th-century guidebook on etiquette and manners written by Florence Hartley. Published in 1860, it provides guidance to women on conducting themselves with grace, courtesy, and propriety in various social situations of the era. Topics covered include behavior at social gatherings, rules for correspondence, hosting guests, and guidelines for dress and personal grooming. The book reflects the social norms and values of the mid-19th century, offering insight into the expectations and roles of women during that period.

The Ladies' Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness by Florence Hartley. A complete hand book for the use of the lady in polite society. Etiquette is a code of behavior that delineates expectations for social behavior according to contemporary conventional norms within a society, social class, or group. Containing; Full directions for correct manners, dress, deportment, and conversation; rules for the duties of both hostess and guest in morning receptions, dinner companies, visiting, evening parties and balls; a complete guide for letter writing and cards of compliment; hints on managing servants, on the preservation of health, and on accomplishments.

The art of conversation consists in the exercise of two fine qualities. You must originate, and you must sympathize; you must possess at the same time the habit of communicating and of listening attentively. The union is rare but irresistible. None but an excessively ill-bred person will allow her attention to wander from the person with whom she is conversing; and especially she will never, while seeming to be entirely attentive to her companion, answer a remark or question made to another person, in another group. Unless the conversation be general among a party of friends, confine your remarks and attention entirely to the person with whom you are conversing. Steele says, "I would establish but one great general rule in conversation, which is this-that people should not talk to please themselves, but those who hear them. This would make them consider whether what they speak be worth hearing; whether there be either wit or sense in what they are about to say; and whether it be adapted to the time when, the place where, and the person to whom, it is spoken."

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Politeness, founded upon such a rule, becomes the expression, in graceful manner, of social virtues. The spirit of politeness consists in a certain attention to forms and ceremonies, which are meant both to please others and ourselves, and to make others pleased with us; a still clearer definition may be given by saying that politeness is goodness of heart put into daily practice; there can be no true politeness without kindness, purity, singleness of heart, and sensibility.Many believe that politeness is but a mask worn in the world to conceal bad passions and impulses, and to make a show of possessing virtues not really existing in the heart; thus, that politeness is merely hypocrisy and dissimulation. Do not believe this; be certain that those who profess such a doctrine are practising themselves the deceit they condemn so much. Such people scout politeness, because, to be truly a lady, one must carry the principles into every circumstance of life, into the family circle, the most intimate friendship, and never forget to extend the gentle courtesies of life to every one.

Civil War-era guide to crafting and handwork features 262 engraved patterns for decorating collars, hair ornaments, cushions, purses, and other items. Techniques include beadwork, braiding, crochet, knitting, lace work, tatting, and more.

This charmingly instructive 1860 guide offers timeless advice for proper behavior in every situation, from traveling abroad and hosting a dinner party to choosing clothes and attending a wedding.

This 19th century guide offers advice on how to behave like a lady in all manner of situations! If you want to know how best to react when you notice a stranger's dress tucked up at the back, or how to be ladylike while being seasick, this is the book for you!