The Human Behavior - Valentin Leonard Matcas - Bog

Your behavior consists of everything that you do in life, knowingly and unknowingly. Even more, your behavior represents and is a consequence of everything that you need, mean, and think throughout life. Yet it was so easy to manage your life if your behavior was so easy to define, because you always live your life alongside the rest of society, and always influenced by the rest of the world, in every manner. You are a social value, highly useful to others, and this is how others end up controlling you and your behavior according to their own needs and reasoning, with or without your consent. And this is how you behave and live your life in society, you influence and you are influenced by others continuously, according to your needs, beliefs, duties, capabilities, orders, and agendas. And you do so successively, continuously, and many times simultaneously throughout life and throughout society.
Even more, your social behavior does not define you entirely, since your private, hidden behavior is distinct from your open, social one. You work hard to keep this shadow behavior unnoticed and at bay, but now when you consider it, you realize that it defines you more than everything else. This has always been the case, it can make life fun and exciting at times, yet it can become dangerous and expensive. Because it has become a continuously hidden need that you are forced to fulfill consistently, and many times, you would rather avoid this private behavior, if you only knew how.
What happens is that the entire world lives in this major dissociation, because everybody seeks privacy and intimacy in life for various reasons, as everybody lives in the hiding most of the time, overwhelmed, guilty, and confused. And now, you seek to find out why you behave in this manner, you want to know what you can do in order to change and improve your behavior, you seek to know how to educate your children towards adopting a good behavior in life and in the world, and this is why you read this book.
Throughout this book, you learn everything about the human behavior, everything necessary to help you control yourself, understand others, and develop to higher levels, along with everything necessary for you to help and educate others to behave well, while developing consistently to higher levels.