To Communicate About Sex - Amanda Whitley - Bog

Do you want for deeper, more rewarding sex and closeness with your lover but keep returning to the same dull routine? Do you and your spouse discuss your sexual aspirations and difficulties in an open and nonjudgmental manner, or is it simply too difficult?Partners often keep their sex life a secret from one another. It might be frightening to broach the subject, even with the person you are closest to. As a consequence, you converse about your daily life instead of sexual intimacy, such as who will pick up which kid from school, who will prepare which meal, and when each of you will return home. Not quite the fulfilling relationship you were hoping for.
It may have had a very good impact on your relationship if you'd tried something different or spoken to your spouse about your sexual difficulties. So why not just discuss it? Most likely because society has taught you that when you find the proper person, a fulfilling sexual relationship would simply naturally develop. It's what movies, porn, and books show, but that's not how life is like.
There are methods to discuss sex with your spouse without making it seem too uncomfortable in order to achieve closeness with them. Learn what a difference sexuality-related communication can have in your relationship.