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Dangerous and disregarding people don't just drop out of the sky. Nor are they born bloodthirsty and cruel. When looking at the developmental years of adult criminals and juvenile delinquents or the selfish patterns of anyone that we must rub shoulders with, the question is asked "How does one get this way?" Typically we can see the answers within their genetic mental health history which may hint of possible concern and their first 5 years after birth which is their most impressionable social training ground.This volume reveals what the source and beginnings of aberrant behavior looks like, and what the adults they become act like. It also gives us perspective as to how to recognize and at least avoid predators in regular person clothing.Is there a cure or pill for predatory behavior?Is there hope for your relative or coworker from Hell?Where they come from, what they look like and how we can prevent or dodge them is the purpose of this book.When it comes to the above questions Theodore Robert Bundy's life gives us all the information we need.

In this collection of 12 stories the author depicts scenes from the lives of children, families and adults, dealing with topics and events which are common to many households and families around the world, and which leave lasting marks on our lives. We meet children and families struggling with various problems - from illnesses, dyslexia, autism, the loss of a loved one, domestic abuse and bullying, to the problem of facing ourselves and our own weaknesses. Through these simple stories, with which we can all identify, we recognise people and situations we ourselves may be going through or they might be happening to someone we know. The language of the stories is simple, non-scientific, and the events are based on the author's long-term experience of working with various age groups. We are lead into each story through a short, inspiring quote by the author. Each story ends with a small exercise, like a brief meditation called Place to myself; its goal is to apply what we learned from the story to something positive and applicable in our lives. These are not children's stories, but stories about children and adults, stemming from the author's experiences and dreams/nightmares. The stories aim to reach parents and educators, i.e. any adult working with children and for the good of children and families.

Alba er 2,5 år og går i vuggestue. De fleste dage er gode. Så leger Alba med Albert. Men andre dage er dumme. Især når far har været skræmmende og har råbt højt eller skubbet til mor derhjemme. Så kaster Alba med tingene og bider Albert. Og Alba kan hverken sove eller spise noget. Heldigvis findes pædagogen Hanne. Det hjælper lidt. Men ikke altid.Alba har en dum dag, er en samtalebog til de 1-4 årige børn, der er udsat for vold i deres familie. Den handler om ikke at have ord for alt det svære, der sker, når volden mellem de to mennesker, man elsker allerhøjest, eskalerer. For ord kan mangle, når man kun er 2,5 år. Når ordene mangler, kan barnet i stedet vise, hvordan det har det.Alba har en dum dag er den anden bog i serien om Alba. Den første titel hedder: Alba - og hendes familie.

Romanen giver læseren et indblik i, hvor vanskeligt det er at komme fri af et dysfunktionelt parforhold, hvor psykisk vold er dagens orden. Mette er efter mange års samliv med Morten langsomt, men sikkert manipuleret ind i hans destruktive univers. Langt om længe går det op for hende, hvor nedbrydende og alt ødelæggende det er for hende og børnene. Morten lyver og manipulerer konstant med familien. Han er psykisk og fysisk voldelig, men kan også af og til være indsmigrende og venlig, hvilket fastholder Mette i håbet om bedring i fremtiden. Den evige vekslen mellem massiv kulde og kortvarig ”kærlighed”, får Mettes selvtillid og dømmekraft til at smuldre, og hun forledes til at tro, at det er hende, der er noget galt med. Mette må ud i friheden! ...

There's a silent epidemic creeping through the church. And it's not pretty. Statistics tell us that one in four highly religious marriages in the United States have abuse in them, although few are willing to admit it. Pastors don't see it and aren't trained to deal with it; fellow parishioners may not notice something is wrong; and the Christian woman trapped in such a situation may not realize that what she's experiencing is actually abuse.Author Rebecca Commean knows this well. She sensed something was wrong but couldn't quite put her finger on it. Her husband was controlling, he lied, he gaslighted her, he meted out small sums of money to run the household of nine children. But he was a different guy at church. At church, people loved and revered him, and the church leaders told her to, above all else, to submit to him. When she finally asked herself the question Is this Domestic Abuse? her eyes were opened, and she knew she had to do better for herself and her children. This handbook for Christian women will help you to evaluate your own situation and, if warranted, it will show you how to protect yourself and your children from what could become a dangerous and deadly situation. Commean has covered every step of the extraction process and provides numerous resources to help you help yourself.

You should always feel safe in a relationship, feel equal with your partner, and feel respect for each other. This this is why I created the journal. Journal stems from the word journey. I have provided highlights from my life's journey of domestic abuse, but I realized that it is not yours. Therefore, I have compiled resources, activities, and journaling pages for you to record YOUR journey in hopes that it will help you and others whom you may share it with in the future. Happy journaling!Words are powerful; the words we choose to say out loud are even more powerful. That's why I tell everyone I am a domestic violence survivor-not a victim.Never a victim.While this guide focuses on dating partners, these principles apply to relationships with friends, family, spouses, and coworkers.

This book comes from a painful experience where God healed me and brought out ministry from. It comes from experience of realizing the gap between the church and domestic violence victims and survivors. And most importantly it comes out of my dissertation!The purpose of this book is to help build a bridge between domestic violence victims/survivors, outside licensed professionals, and church leaders to bring complete healing to abused women.Dr. Smith in collaboration with a pastor in California will also be creating a program that churches can use as an outreach ministry or small group to teach other pastors about domestic violence and how to minister effectively to victims and survivors.Dr. Tanya Smith is a Biblical Scholar and Theologian holding her Bachelor Degree in Pastoral Ministries, Master of Divinity and Doctor in Ministry Degrees. She's a loving mother and grandmother who loves the Lord with all her heart. She is an evangelist who speaks at different churches on God's love, power, and healing. She also books speaking engagements on domestic violence and owns Rejuvenated Women's Foundation. She runs a conference out of her foundation called, "Damaged but not Broken" and is the author of "Damaged but not Broken: How God Brings Restoration After Domestic Violence", "Healed, Delivered, Set Free, Restored", "Entering the Throne Room" and Book 1 in the Spiritual Empowerment Series "Starting With the Basics", book 2 "Levels of the Call" and book 3 "Time to Flow".

This is the third book in the Warning Signs series. This volume will show how I began to see the abuse that was occurring, started questioning my trust in him, and found the courage to leave. It also depicts how people cope with the emotional abuse and inner turmoil of it all, how people leave, and how people grow afterward. ---Warning Signs, is my memoir about intimate partner violence (IPV), a subset of domestic violence (DV). It reads as though it is a fast-paced romance adventure story, but after every chapter there is a Warning Signs section that explains the domestic violence that was actually occurring. I am not only a DV survivor, but I am a therapist with extensive training in domestic violence principles; which I share in these Warning Signs chapters. ¿Warning Signs is one story in a series of three books; Volume 1 shows the story about how we met, fell in love, and began our relationship together. Volume 2 shows the story of our marriage, how our relationship changed, and why I stayed with him. Volume 3 shows how I began to understand what was happening, started questioning my trust in him, and eventually left him. My hope is that this book can teach people the warning signs so that people can: 1) Not enter abusive relationships; 2) Leave if they are in them; 3) Help people notice if someone is in an abusive relationship, and then teach them the warning signs so they leave; 4) Help people whose loved ones have experienced abuse understand what happened and why it was hard for them to see the signs and leave; and 5) Create a global discussion so that we can change these patterns, so as a society we can work toward ending abuse.As a community of people reading this book and people that care about survivors, I hope that we can help people make smart decisions. Share your thoughts and stories using #WarningSigns so we can grow together.

This is the second book in the Warning Sign series, which helps people learn the warning signs of intimate partner violence (IPV) and domestic violence (DV). In this volume, I write about our marriage and how it felt, the good times and the bad. In these warning signs sections, you will learn about trauma bonding and other reasons people stay in abusive relationships. The important message is that people stay in these relationships for a variety of reasons, and we should never judge someone for making the choice to stay. People will leave when they are ready and when they are safe to leave.--- Warning Signs, is my memoir about intimate partner violence (IPV), a subset of domestic violence (DV). It reads as though it is a fast-paced romance adventure story, but after every chapter there is a Warning Signs section that explains the domestic violence that was actually occurring. I am not only a DV survivor, but I am a therapist with extensive training in domestic violence principles; which I share in these Warning Signs chapters. ¿Warning Signs is one story in a series of three books; Volume 1 shows the story about how we met, fell in love, and began our relationship together. Volume 2 shows the story of our marriage, how our relationship changed, and why I stayed with him. Volume 3 shows how I began to understand what was happening, started questioning my trust in him, and eventually left him. My hope is that this book can teach people the warning signs so that people can: 1) Not enter abusive relationships; 2) Leave if they are in them; 3) Help people notice if someone is in an abusive relationship, and then teach them the warning signs so they leave; 4) Help people whose loved ones have experienced abuse understand what happened and why it was hard for them to see the signs and leave; and 5) Create a global discussion so that we can change these patterns, so as a society we can work toward ending abuse.As a community of people reading this book and people that care about survivors, I hope that we can help people make smart decisions. Share your thoughts and stories using #WarningSigns so we can grow together.

— Mit Smukke Bæst, ser du det nu, din mor har aldrig elsket dig. Er du ked af det? Sover du?Det smukke bæst er et ondt eventyr om en forsømt pige, hendes guddommeligt smukke, men enfoldige bror og deres selvoptagede mor. Med sin udpenslede vold og ødipale mareridtsstemning var romanen, skrevet af den dengang kun 20-årige Marie-Claire Blais, et særsyn i 50'ernes Canada. Den vakte enorm forargelse, men betragtes i dag som et uomgængeligt hovedværk i det 20. århundredes canadiske litteratur. Marie-Claire Blais hører til samme generation af canadiske forfattere som Margaret Atwood (The Handmaid's Tale), der om sit rystende møde med romanen sagde:"Bogen gjorde mig meget utilpas, af andre end blot de åbenlyse grunde: volden, mordene, antydningerne af incest og skriftens hallucinatoriske intensitet var sjældne i datidens canadiske litteratur, men endnu mere skræmmende var tanken om, at denne utroligt velskrevne, bloddryppende fantasi var skrevet af en kun 19-årig pige."

Even though we're becoming a more open-minded society when it comes to certain things. There are still plenty of people who will judge or question why someone is doing something. Whether you agree with someone or not, having conversations is important before judging them. Trying to get a better understanding with more information can be helpful. In this book, I wanted a variety of people to tell me why they do it. Whether it's adult entertainment, OnlyFans, a phone sex worker, or being a sugar baby. It was interesting to learn why they did it.

Radicalisation is a conceptual investigation within Western liberal democratic societies that follows an analytical framework linking expertise theory to discourse analysis.

"Suviving Survivor's Guilt" is a beacon of light for those grappling with the aftermath of tragedy, providing an unwavering hand to hold onto in the darkest moments. Dakota Frandsen's empathetic voice and expert guidance make this book a must-read for survivors, their loved ones, and anyone seeking to understand and support those dealing with survivor's guilt.If you or someone you know is struggling to overcome the weight of survivor's guilt, this book is your steadfast companion on the path to healing, growth, and rediscovery of life's precious gifts.

Liberte-se do Ciclo Narcisista! O Guia Definitivo para Superar a Codependência e Romper com o Abuso Emocional nas Relações.Cansado de se sentir preso em um relacionamento narcisista e abusivo?Deseja sair da armadilha da codependência e recuperar o controle emocional da sua vida?Este livro é para todos aqueles que buscam resolver relações narcisistas e se libertar do ciclo vicioso da codependência. Embarque em uma jornada transformadora de autoconhecimento e crescimento pessoal. Descubra como romper padrões abusivos e recuperar a força emocional necessária para viver uma vida plena, livre do abuso emocional.Explore as chaves para libertar-se do ciclo narcisista e alcance:Aprender a reconhecer e superar relações narcisistas que prejudicam o seu bem-estar.Fortalecer sua autoestima e autoconfiança para estabelecer limites saudáveis nas relações.Desenvolver habilidades de comunicação assertiva e autêntica.Recuperar sua independência emocional e liberdade pessoal.Cultivar um amor-próprio genuíno e uma vida mais autêntica e satisfatória.Está pronto para abraçar uma nova versão de si mesmo e viver uma vida livre de abusos emocionais? Com "Codependência nas Relações", você finalmente poderá romper os padrões que o mantêm preso e redescobrir o poder de tomar as rédeas da sua vida.Não perca mais tempo preso na armadilha do abuso emocional. Adquira este livro agora e resolva suas relações narcisistas de uma vez por todas!

Libérate de la Codependencia y Recupera tu Poder Personal con este Poderoso Libro Transformador.¿Listo para liberarte de los vínculos tóxicos y recuperar el control de tu vida?¿Deseas cultivar relaciones auténticas y saludables que te empoderen?Este libro es para todos aquellos que desean liberarse de la codependencia y construir relaciones significativas. Sumérgete en una transformadora exploración hacia el autodescubrimiento y el crecimiento personal. Descubre cómo superar patrones dañinos y reclamar tu poder interior para vivir una vida plena y auténtica.Embárcate en un viaje de autolibertad y autodominio mientras desentrañas los secretos de la codependencia transformada. Este libro te brinda herramientas prácticas y estrategias efectivas para:Identificar y liberarte de vínculos tóxicos que limitan tu bienestar.Fortalecer tu autoestima y confianza para construir relaciones saludables.Establecer límites claros y saludables en tus relaciones interpersonales.Desarrollar habilidades de comunicación asertiva y respetuosa.Cultivar un amor propio genuino que te empodere en todas las áreas de tu vida.¿Estás listo para abrazar una nueva versión de ti mismo y vivir en plenitud y libertad? Con "Codependencia Transformada", finalmente podrás liberarte de los patrones que te retienen y redescubrir el poder de ser dueño de tu vida.¡Convierte la adversidad en oportunidad y adquiere este libro hoy mismo! La transformación te espera al alcance de tus manos.

You will understand the specific weapons and tactics that are used by manipulators to achieve their own selfish ends. You will be given a complete toolkit in order to regain control over your own life and stop anyone from having unfair power over you ever again. You have a simple choice. You can ignore this book and the valuable information it contains and go through life at risk of being used by others for their own selfish ends. Or, you can read on, apply the information, and live a happy life that is within your own control. A few things you are going to learn from the book:Different types of abuseThe severity and frequency of an abusive relationshipA list of behaviors the abusers may showA look into how the victims may feelHelp with getting out of an abusive relationshipAnd much, much more...Beginning with a discussion of the magnitude of the problem of domestic violence, the authors present a fictional narrative of whose relationship with her intimate partner dissolves into abuse and violence, both physical and emotional. What follows is expert commentary on her story by law enforcement, a judge and former district attorney, victim advocate, therapist, and survivor, which provide a unique exploration of the tragedy of abuse and potential means by which it can be addressed. The main theme of the book is the tendency to "blame the victim" for staying in an abusive relationship and the need to understand why leaving can be so difficult and dangerous.

I invite you to journey with me as I share my personal story, from pain to purpose. It is my hope that it serves as a catalyst to cause a shift in your life and land you at a place called destiny.

In Confused, Fauneil Fremont tells the story of Brio as a warning to would-be victims of scammers. Brio, a lively middle-aged woman, finds herself gradually controlled and manipulated by Richie, a younger man whom she mistakenly and tragically trusts during a desolate period of her life. Richie's constant switching between a sweet and generous nature and an abusive and callous nature deeply confuses Brio, leaving her weary and, at times, utterly terrified. During thirty months of physical, emotional, and financial abuse, Brio gradually learns to know the "true Richie." But, is it too late? Will life ever return to normalcy for her? Fauneil has lived in Nebraska, Arizona, California, New Mexico, and Texas. She has a BSc in Ed from the University of Nebraska, an MEd from the University of Arizona, and a BA and MA from San Jose State University. In 2023, Fauneil returned to California, where she currently resides in Stockton. She has had careers as an English teacher and a pipe organist, both described in her writing, along with a study tour of Europe sponsored by the University of South Dakota. Since beginning her third career as a writer, she has published with Xulon the following books: I Didn't Really Know Him 2019 The Seeds of the Prairie 2021 The Spirit of the Prairie, a sequel 2022 Confused 2023

Married for years to a narcissistic pervert, Marianne Guillemin offers a thoughtful account of the mechanisms of this psychological disorder, of the withdrawal she experienced, and urges women to stop keeping silent.

A gripping tale that talks about a real-life journey of a mother who has walked through the traumas of Domestic Violence within her marriage. A true heartfelt testimony of the journey that Loren has walked through and how she has overcome her experiences, fought one of the biggest battles of her life and protected her children along the way all while allowing God to work through her in bringing her into full healing. As she tells her story, allow it to speak to you as you read through each page and how it can help you also walk out your own journey. Through walking through adversity, remember that you are stronger than you give yourself credit for and if you allow God to meet you where you are, He can help bring you true healing that will last a lifetime.

This emotionally powerful memoir is the story of Catherine Brown, a survivor of child abuse and domestic violence.As a child, Catherine felt invisible. However, she went on to find her voice and today sees a future that brims with purpose, meaning and joy. Catherine now wants to use what she learned from her experiences to help others. 'The dreadful things that I suffered have made me into the woman I am today but, finally, I like that woman,' she says.'If you have experienced abuse, I need to tell you that you can break free. You have to be brave and push yourself to be able to recover. But there is always light at the end of that darkest tunnel, and my story is proof of that.'

In this harrowing tale, of loss, and new beginnings, Jazmin Galloway explores the theft of life as we know it, through the lens of a scary but beautiful world.Larceny is a collection of readings following the sudden death of a woman's partner and his death's aftermath on her life, her child, and their suddenly dark future. Larceny is the theft of the life one has come to know, in lieu of an unknown future. This collection speaks on finding peace within oneself, moving on, and facing those hidden demons of grief. At the same time, exploring a woman's pain in motherhood.

Kaffe & østers er et portræt af iværksætteren Signe Nordal og udviklingen i firmaet Nordal. Fortællingen er et korsstingsbroderi, der viser den gode fortælling om barndom, ungdom og en traditionel kernefamilie i et parcelhus. Men idyllen brydes. Signe bliver efter en skilsmisse forelsket i en ny mand og ”fuldstændig solgt” til en voldelig kæreste. I virksomheden har hun succes, mens hendes privatliv ligger i ruiner. I firmaet dækker hun over volden. Signe kommer efter flere års forsøg ud af det voldelige forhold med erfaringer om grænseoverskridende kontrol, magt og afmagt. Efter bruddet oplever hun en stalkingperiode på halvandet år. I den tid vidste Signe aldrig, hvad hun kom hjem til, og derfor havde hun i en periode ansat en privat vagt i sit hjem. I bogen fortæller Signe, at det på trods af en helt almindelig opvækst i velfærdssamfundet kan ske, at man bliver blind og forelsket og ikke ser tegn på manipulation og kontrol fra ens kæreste, men tolker det som beskyttelse og omsorg. Han ville jo bare passe på mig. Jeg følte mig feminin og var ikke opmærksom. Men jeg skulle blive klogere, siger Signe.

"No Trespassing" is Elizabeth Navarette Savage's personal memoir and "gift" to survivors of domestic violence, as well as anyone who has experienced a traumatic loss in his/her life. Elizabeth met what she thought was "the love of her life" in high school, never imagining that her dream boyfriend would be her living nightmare.Like so many victims, Elizabeth ignored the warning signs, and by the time the abuse started, she had already given birth to her first child, was pregnant with another, and married to her tormenter. For eight years after that, she was beaten and mentally abused at the hands of her husband and the father of her children.Elizabeth's debut book chronicles her journey through a tumultuous relationship with a chronic abuser, which turned her life upside down and ultimately ended with the devastating loss of three of her children. Through it all, Elizabeth was determined to break the cycle of her abuse and loss by turning her pain into purpose, which she has masterfully done by telling her life-altering story in "No Trespassing." In sharing her story, Elizabeth's goal is to empower women, men, and teens to break the cycle of abuse and live the lives that God pre-ordained for them. "No Trespassing" will give hope to the hopeless that they, too, can overcome what may seem like insurmountable odds without looking back!Elizabeth Navarette Savage is a native of El Paso, Texas but raised in Amarillo (TX) and CEO of the Stand Together Against Nationwide Domestic Violence organization, also known as S.T.A.N.D, which she founded in 2010. The goal of S.T.A.N.D. is to uplift and inspire broken women, men, and teens who have experienced challenges in their lives. As part of her commitment to inspiring and bringing hope to those who have been victims of sexual and domestic violence, Elizabeth has penned her debut book, "No Trespassing" in which she shares her painful experience with domestic violence as well as the heartbreaking loss of her three children. When Elizabeth is not running the day-to-day operation of S.T.A.N.D, she is traveling all over the country, speaking to a variety of audiences on the dangers of being in a domestic violence relationship as well as the warning signs to look for. Elizabeth also volunteers with the Arlington Police Department through their Arlington Clergy and Police Partnership program. Lastly, she is a wife to her husband Dennis, a mother to daughter Marcella and son Jay and grandmother to five grandchildren. You can learn more about Elizabeth's S.T.A.N.D. organization and its mission at >www.elizabethsavage.org