Narcissism - Rickey Oconnor - Bog

The actuality of who narcissists are and what they do is extremely intricate and well-played, despite the fact that they have a propensity to hold inflated self-perceptions. Narcissism is an intricate, well-constructed series of traits wrapped into one mental illness that is extremely harmful to all who cross the path of a narcissist, particularly their companions.
Everyone has known a narcissist at some point. The narcissist, who is charming, self-confident, and entertaining to be around, can temporarily make you feel good about yourself. When you see the narcissist's true visage, the story changes. You are left exhausted and bewildered by the combination of put-downs, mind games, and relentless criticism with emotional blackmail and other forms of manipulation. When the narcissist leaves, you are left pondering how someone who seemed so wonderful could have caused you so much pain.
Selfishness dominates their actions, and in the majority of instances, they prefer that things be done in their manner, even if it conflicts with the established objectives and goals. They would rather be alone than learn to be compassionate in any setting. Covert narcissists typically pursue their own satisfaction and have no intention of serving others; they prefer to be served by others. The majority of the time, they take pride in a self-deprecating manner in order to obtain a compliment from others, which is a trap.