The Men in My Life: Scarred by the men I trusted - Thobile Nene - Bog

Children are becoming the most endangered species in our lifetime. They are preyed on by people who are supposed to love, cherish, and protect them. They get hurt by people they love and trust the most. Who can suspect a father, brother, uncle, neighbour to hurt the children? These are the realities of the times we live in.These innocent little people, are our future leaders, and hope for a better tomorrow for the next generations. Whatever we teach or do to them, it is exactly what they will do to the next generations. And some choose to be the monsters in this little people's life. They hurt and take away their innocence. They are shrinked by these monsters into tiny little beings that will never stand tall again. They steal their voice, and get them to spend the rest of their lives silently crying and asking themselves, "Why me?"This book is intended to outline some of the pain a broken little girl goes through in silence, with fear clouding her, because of "The men in her life". One may ask, "Why did she not speak up?", but first, show me a little girl who is not afraid of the monsters threads of hurting them and their loved ones or worse killing them? Child abusers know just the right buttons to press to scare our little people.I hope that when one reads this book, they do not start doubting the genuineness of the love their spouses have for their girl kids; however, for them to start paying more attention. You will never know. Young children need us to pay attention, listen more to them, and create a trust environment for them to express themselves without fear. Above all, to talk about the abuse, while encouraging them to talk when adults say or do uncomfortable things to them.