Mental velvære

Her er gaven til alle konfirmander, som de ikke vidste, de havde ønsket sig! En bog skrevet i øjenhøjde med konfirmanderne og direkte til dem af en sognepræst, der har undervist og talt med hundredevis af konfirmander gennem mere end 15 år. Det skal nok gå godt er en livsbekræftende, tankevækkende og til tider humoristisk lille bog henvendt til alle de unge konfirmander, der står ved porten til voksenlivet og kan have brug for at få et nyt perspektiv på livet. Den holder med de unge og fortæller dem, at de er, som de skal være. Der er enkelte dryp kristendom og bibelhistorie hist og her, men ellers hæ­ver forfatteren sig over det religiøse og forsøger at opmuntre konfirman­derne til at leve livet og leve det med andre, indgyde dem mod på at være sig selv, give dem håb for fremtiden, fortælle dem, at livet både er svært og dejligt, men først og fremmest at det hele nok skal gå godt.Om forfatteren Karsten Møller Hansen har været sognepræst ved Tårnby Kirke på Amager siden 2006. Det bedste ved at være præst har altid været at have konfir­mander, siger han. Han skriver faste kommenta­rer i Berlingske Tidende. I 2016 fulgte et filmhold ham, mens han underviste et hold konfirmander. Det blev til den roste film TRO af Jens Loftager. Filmen havde premiere ved CPH DOX i 2018 og er senere vist på DR.

The most famous confidence-boosting book ever published; with sales of over 16 million copies worldwide Millions of people around the world have improved their lives based on the teachings of Dale Carnegie. In How to Win Friends and Influence People, he offers practical advice and techniques, in his exuberant and conversational style, for how to get out of a mental rut and make life more rewarding. His advice has stood the test of time and will teach you how to: - make friends quickly and easily - increase your popularity - persuade people to follow your way of thinking - enable you to win new clients and customers - become a better speaker - boost enthusiasm among your colleagues This classic book will turn your relationships around and improve your interactions with everyone in your life. Dale Carnegie, known as 'the arch-priest of the art of making friends', pioneered the development of personal business skills, self-confidence and motivational techniques. His books - most notably How to Win Friends and Influence People - have sold tens of millions worldwide and, even in today's changing climate, they remain as popular as ever.

A prominent Viennese psychiatrist before the war, Viktor Frankl was uniquely able to observe the way that he and other inmates coped with the experience of being in Auschwitz. He noticed that it was the men who comforted others and who gave away their last piece of bread who survived the longest - and who offered proof that everything can be taken away from us except the ability to choose our attitude in any given set of circumstances. The sort of person the prisoner became was the result of an inner decision and not of camp influences alone.Frankl came to believe that man's deepest desire is to search for meaning and purpose. This outstanding work offers us all a way to transcend suffering and find significance in the art of living.

The #1 Sunday Times bestseller from 'the most influential public intellectual in the Western world right now' (New York Times) - now in paperback. How should we live properly in a world of chaos and uncertainty?Jordan Peterson has helped millions of people, young and old, men and women, aim at a life of responsibility and meaning. Now he can help you.Drawing on his own work as a clinical psychologist and on lessons from humanity's oldest myths and stories, Peterson offers twelve profound and realistic principles to live by. After all, as he reminds us, we each have a vital role to play in the unfolding destiny of the world. Deep, rewarding and enlightening, 12 Rules for Life is a lifeboat built solidly for stormy seas: ancient wisdom applied to our contemporary problems.

The phenomenal international bestseller - 2 million copies sold - that will change the way you make decisions'A lifetime's worth of wisdom' Steven D. Levitt, co-author of Freakonomics' There have been many good books on human rationality and irrationality, but only one masterpiece. That masterpiece is Thinking, Fast and Slow' Financial TimesWhy is there more chance we'll believe something if it's in a bold type face? Why are judges more likely to deny parole before lunch? Why do we assume a good-looking person will be more competent? The answer lies in the two ways we make choices: fast, intuitive thinking, and slow, rational thinking.This book reveals how our minds are tripped up by error and prejudice (even when we think we are being logical), and gives you practical techniques for slower, smarter thinking. It will enable to you make better decisions at work, at home, and in everything you do.

Charm, persuasion, the ability to create illusions: these are some of the many dazzling gifts of the Seducer, the compelling figure who is able to manipulate, mislead and give pleasure all at once. This book unearths the two sides of seduction: the characters and the process. It provides instruction on how to identify victims by type.

THE PHENOMENAL INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER: 1 MILLION COPIES SOLDTransform your life with tiny changes in behaviour, starting now. People think that when you want to change your life, you need to think big. But world-renowned habits expert James Clear has discovered another way.He knows that real change comes from the compound effect of hundreds of small decisions: doing two push-ups a day, waking up five minutes early, or holding a single short phone call. He calls them atomic habits. In this ground-breaking book, Clears reveals exactly how these minuscule changes can grow into such life-altering outcomes.He uncovers a handful of simple life hacks (the forgotten art of Habit Stacking, the unexpected power of the Two Minute Rule, or the trick to entering the Goldilocks Zone), and delves into cutting-edge psychology and neuroscience to explain why they matter. Along the way, he tells inspiring stories of Olympic gold medalists, leading CEOs, and distinguished scientists who have used the science of tiny habits to stay productive, motivated, and happy. These small changes will have a revolutionary effect on your career, your relationships, and your life.

Det tager kun en femtedel af et sekund at aktivere de 12 hjerneområder, der hensætter et menneske i en svimlende forelskelsesrus. Men hvad skal der til for at det sker? Hvorfor forelsker vi os i det hele taget? Og hvorfor går kærligheden så ofte i stykker igen? I denne banebrydende bog kortlægger Jytte Vikkelsøe den romantiske kemis mysterium. Gennem hendes skelsættende arbejde med kriseramte par får vi indsigt i forelskelsens og kærlighedens dynamik. En række fængslende cases demonstrerer, hvordan og ikke mindst hvorfor kærlighedens indbyggede uoverensstemmelser og konflikter både er forudsætningen for forelskelsen og samtidig ender med at dominere de fleste parforhold – men også, hvordan kærlighedens konflikter markerer et ulevet potentiale, vi sjældent gør os begreb om: potentialet til at finde tilbage til vores egen inderste kerne og leve livet fuldt og helt.

'A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship.' - John Gray, PhD., bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from VenusIs there a science to love? In this groundbreaking book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine and psychologist Rachel S. F. Heller reveal how an understanding of attachment theory - the most advanced relationship science in existence today - can help us find and sustain love.Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment explains that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back.Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness. Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving.With fascinating psychological insight, quizzes and case studies, Dr Amir Levine and Rachel Heller help you understand the three attachment styles, identify your own and recognize the styles of others so that you can find compatible partners or improve your existing relationship. An insightful look at the science behind love, Attached offers readers a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections.

Only those who allowed their inner hold on their moral and spiritual selves to subside eventually fell victim to the camp's degenerating influence - while those who made a victory of those experiences turned them into an inner triumph.

Du kan mærke energien i et rum og fra et andet menneske – nogle gange er den positiv, andre gange negativ. Denne bog handler om at blive bedre til at styre den – energien i og omkring dig. Et grundlæggende trin er at lære at skifte energi. Det er nemlig noget, du kan gøre, for at få den gode og åndfulde energi til at vibrere tilbage til dig. I Energi åbner Rikke Hertz mere for sit stærke, spirituelle menneskesyn. I denne bog introducerer hun bl.a. sin ENERGISKIFTEMODEL som et redskab til at løfte energien både fysisk og mentalt – til gavn for dig og for din omverden. DENNE BOG LÆRER DIGAt tiltrække ren energiAt stå stærkt i din egen energiAt bruge naturen til at blive groundedAt rydde op i dit hjem og skabe plads til forandringAt skifte dårlige vaner ud

World-renowned Stanford University psychologist Carol Dweck, in decades of research on achievement and success, has discovered a truly groundbreaking idea-the power of our mindset.Dweck explains why it's not just our abilities and talent that bring us success-but whether we approach them with a fixed or growth mindset. She makes clear why praising intelligence and ability doesn't foster self-esteem and lead to accomplishment, but may actually jeopardize success. With the right mindset, we can motivate our kids and help them to raise their grades, as well as reach our own goals-personal and professional. Dweck reveals what all great parents, teachers, CEOs, and athletes already know: how a simple idea about the brain can create a love of learning and a resilience that is the basis of great accomplishment in every area.

Read this book and you'll never smoke another cigarette again. Allen Carr has discovered a method of quitting that will enable any smoker to stop, easily, immediately and permanently. As the world's bestselling book on how to stop smoking and with over nine million copies sold worldwide, Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking is the one that really works.__________'It didn't take any willpower. I didn't miss it at all and I was free' Ruby WaxTHE unique method:No scare tacticsNo weight-gainThe psychological need to smoke disappears as you readFeel great to be a non-smokerJoin the 25 million men and women that Allen Carr has helped stop smoking.__________TESTIMONIALS . . . 'Giving up smoking was one of the biggest achievements of my life. I read Allen Carr's book and would recommend it to anybody trying to kick the habit' Michael McIntyre'Achieved for me a thing that I thought was not possible - to give up a thirty-year smoking habit literally overnight. It was nothing short of a miracle' Anjelica Huston'Instantly I was freed from my addiction. I found it not only easy but unbelievably enjoyable to stay stopped' Sir Anthony Hopkins

For over 25 years, renowned brain coach Jim Kwik has worked closely with top actors, athletes, CEOs, and superachievers in all walks of life to unlock their true capabilities. In this groundbreaking book, he reveals the science-based practices and fi eld-tested techniques that the world's top performers use to accelerate their learning and create

• Hold op med at håbe på, at din kvinde bliver nemmere• Skift aldrig mening bare for at behage en kvinde • Værdsæt hende • Foreslå ikke, at en kvinde skal klare sit eget følelsesmæssige problem • Lad være med at analysere din kvinde • Dit livsmål må gå forud for dit parforhold Et revolutionerende syn på hvad det betyder at være mand i dag såvel som en praktisk guide til at leve et kompromisløst og autentisk maskulint liv ved at slappe af og være sig selv. DEN MASKULINE MAND er en opdagelsesrejse ind i hjertet af de moderne maskuline erfaringer. Med stor åbenhed og indsigt i de dybeste lag af mødet mellem det maskuline og feminine, afdækker Deida de mest betydningsfulde udfordringer i mandens liv. Med udgangspunkt i, at ligeberettigelsen mellem kønnene er blevet integreret i vores del af verden, beskriver Deida de naturlove, der gælder for kønnene. Han udleverer med stor autoritet de spil, som de fleste af os kan nikke genkendende til. Og ved at dække mandens forhold til både arbejde, karriere, sex og kvinder viser han, hvordan det er muligt for en mand at finde mening og formål i en stadig mere overfladisk verden. Endelig en bog, der forklarer en kvindes hjerte og sjæl til mænd. Som kvinde har jeg aldrig tidligere følt mig så forstået og værdsat. - Marci Shimoff, forfatter En bog for den ikke-kastrerede mand. Den vil fornærme og irritere nogle, inspirere og teste andre og udfordre så godt som alle og enhver. Jeg ser den som vis, indsigtsfuld, nu og da fremragende og altid fuld af ressourcer. – Ken Wilber, forfatter

A guide to the art of seduction.

De fleste mennesker opfatter et parforhold som et lukket kredsløb, hvor de to parter ikke har intime relationer og sex med andre end hinanden. Men passer det mon til alle, og hvad stiller man op, hvis det ikke gør? KÆRLIGHEDSKONTRAKTEN guider jer som par til at finde præcis den definition på samlivet, som passer bedst til jer. Det kan være en friere, men stadig forpligtende aftale, der ikke sætter kærlighed, eventuelt ægteskab og børn over styr.Hvordan bevarer og styrker man kærligheden, hvordan håndterer man jalousi, hvordan sætter man nye grænser, hvordan trækker man i land igen, hvordan gebærder man sig i forhold til omverdenen?KÆRLIGHEDSKONTRAKTEN er en refleksion- og guidebog, der også rummer erfaringer fra mænd og kvinder om deres tanker og udfordringer med åbne forhold.SARA SKAARUP er sexolog og journalist. Hun har de seneste ti år rådgivet folk i forhold til ikke-monogame relationer og deltager jævnligt i debat i medierne.

When you love someone, how does it feel? And when you desire someone, how is it different? In Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel looks at the story of sex in committed couples. Modern romance promises it all - a lifetime of togetherness, intimacy and erotic desire. In reality, it's hard to want what you already have. Our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. And often, the very thing that got us to into our relationships - lust - is the one thing that goes missing from them. Determined to reconcile the erotic and the domestic, Perel explains why democracy is a passion killer in the bedroom. Argues for playfulness, distance, and uncertainty. And shows what it takes to bring lust home. Smart, sexy and explosively original, Mating in Captivity is the monogamist's essential bedside read.

Ny opdateret og revideret udgave. En grundbog i seksualitet og tantra. En bog om at få mere bevidsthed og glæde i livet. Den medtager ethvert aspekt af det seksuelle univers og kan læses af alle, der ønsker et mere levende sexliv. Der er et væld af øvelser - fra åndedrætsøvelser til øvelser, der behandler seksuelle fantasier. Bogen kan både bruges af par og af mennesker, som er alene med seksualiteten. Alt er fortalt med legende lethed.

More than 6 million readers around the world have improved their lives by reading The Magic of Thinking Big. First published in 1959, David J Schwartz's classic teachings are as powerful today as they were then. Practical, empowering and hugely engaging, this book will not only inspire you, it will give you the tools to change your life for the better - starting from now. His step-by-step approach will show you how to: - Defeat disbelief and the negative power it creates- Make your mind produce positive thoughts- Plan a concrete success-building programme- Do more and do it better by turning on your creative power- Capitalise on the power of NOWUpdated for the 21st century, this is your go-to guide to a better life, starting with the way you think.

Emotions aren't hardwired into you - you create them. A world-leading neuroscientist argues that understanding the origin and nature of emotions has huge implications for our future