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Als Detlef Dodenhoff den Tod seines geliebten Seelenbruders Barry verkraften muss, löst das in ihm eine tiefe Depression aus. Von dem Verlust hart getroffen, nutzt er das Schreiben, um Antworten existenzielle Fragen zu finden: Wie gehe ich mit meiner Trauer und dem Schmerz um? Wie lerne ich, nachsichtiger und liebevoller mit mir selbst zu sein? Wie finde ich meinen Platz in einer hektischen, rücksichtslosen Welt? Und welche Rolle kann Natur dabei spielen?

The bestselling poet Malcolm Guite chooses forty poems from across the centuries that express the universal experience of loss and reflects on them in order to draw out the comfort, understanding and hope they offer. Some of the poems will be familiar, many will be new, but together they provide a sure companion for the journey across difficult terrain. Some of Malcolm's own poetry is included, written out of his work as a priest with the dying and the bereaved and giving to the volume a powerful authenticity. The choice of forty poems is significant and reflects an ancient practice still observed in some European and Middle Eastern societies of taking extra-special care of a bereaved person in the forty days following a death - our word quarantine come from this. They explore the nature and the risk of love, the pain of letting go and look toward glimpses of resurrection.

A National Indie Excellence Awards Finalist, and winner of a Literary Titan Gold Book Award,Willower is a book about using the power of story and imagination to survive the unimaginable. It is the story of a bereaved mother's urgent quest to find a way to stay connected with her beautiful boy.On April 30, 2007, Deanna Kassenoff experienced a parent's worst nightmare when her nine-year-old son, Sam, collapsed on the playground at school and died from sudden cardiac arrest. Drowning in grief, considering ways to end her own life, Deanna was faced with a choice: give up or rewrite her story, one with a different ending.This award-winning memoir takes us into an unfathomable world of the most profound and permanently disorienting experiences: the sudden death of a child. Determined to find meaning in the details of her son's life, Deanna shows us how it is sometimes our lunacy that pulls us through grief back to living again. Written with stunning honesty, intensity, and eloquence, Willower is an unforgettable and heartbreaking demonstration of the endurance it takes to grieve and the courage it takes to live. This thoughtful and lyrical narrative will change you and stay with you forever.We use the words widow, widower, and orphan, but there is no word in our vocabulary that identifies the bereaved parent. So, Deanna coined the term willower®. From the words willow, a weeping tree that symbolizes deep mourning; and willpower, that creative source within that provides the superhuman strength and determination it takes to continue on-despite unimaginable loss.

This book of poems shares my raw, personal journey dealing with the loss of suicide. It addresses further curveballs in life, love, hope, moving forward, and mental health in the workplace.

"In Keep Breathing, Dr. Kate Truitt, a renowned psychologist, applied neuroscientist, and trauma expert, shares her story of unimaginable loss, trauma, and, ultimately, healing. Faced with the sudden, gut-wrenching death of her fiancâe just one week before their wedding day, Kate found her world shattered, catapulting her into a deep void of profound grief, trauma, shock, and guilt. Part memoir and part scientific exploration, Keep Breathing uses Kate's own account as a case study to illuminate the common experiences in our human brain (deep love and devastating loss, exhilaration and pain, life and death) that have the power to both derail our lives and ignite us to rebuild, heal, and grow. Her deeply personal loss sheds light on the human spirit's extraordinary ability to persevere and thrive in the face of suffering, providing readers with a roadmap to navigate their own paths to healing and self-discovery. With its raw yet warm candor, Kate's brave storytelling exemplifies what it means to truly come back to ourselves."--

In "Holding Space: My Story of Grief, Remembering, and Thriving after Traumatic Loss," I share my personal story of losing my daughter, Jordyn Da'yana, and how I have found a way to honor her memory while also living a life of my own.Through my own experience, I offer guidance and support for navigating the challenges that life throws us. Life deals us with various cards, and we must navigate each one as it comes. We may not have chosen our circumstances, but we can choose to continue living.While each person's reasons for moving forward may differ, I encourage readers to take personal responsibility for their own journey and to show themselves grace along the way. None of us know when our time will come, so I have chosen to seize each day, making a meaningful impact on the world." Holding Space " is a starting point for creating your best life, one that brings you joy and fulfillment. As you read this book, remember that if anything no longer serves you, it is time to let it go and embrace a thriving life.Join me on this path of resilience and self-discovery, where the pain of loss becomes a catalyst for finding purpose and embracing life's unpredictable journey.

"Have you ever been in love? I mean, truly, head over heels, can't live without you love... only to have it wrenched from your hand without any notice or warning. Losing Jasmine is the story of how one man tries to come to terms with the sudden void presented to him when his precious life partner wascruelly taken from him. This short novel full of reality and pain mingled with just the right balance of humour asks us all, what would we do? And how would we react if we were in a similar situation? Then as we are taken through a plethora of raw emotion that speeds to a conclusion which will take you by agonizing surprise, Dr Charlie lifts us to a higher plain, and reveals a love so noble, so pure, and so sacrificial, that even what we have previously read, is completely eclipsed. Have the handkerchiefs ready, you're going to need them" Daniel Braithwaite, Senior Editor, Logos Family Magazine New Jersey August 31st 2023.

In the depths of pain and heartache, there lies a path to healing and restoration. Dear Broken Heart is your guide, your companion, and your catalyst for transformation. Step into the pages of this riveting book and embark on a 30-day journey of self-discovery, growth, and liberation.Written by Tyson Isaiah, renowned creative coach, strategist, and business consultant, Dear Broken Heart is the culmination of a decade of profound insights and life-changing interactions with people from all walks of life. Through his deep understanding of the human experience, Tyson discovered that many of us carry the weight of unresolved heartache, resentment, and pain. It's time to break free.Pain may be inevitable, but it doesn't have to define us. Dear Broken Heart empowers you to acknowledge and identify the source of your brokenness, unraveling the barriers that have held you captive. It unveils the symptoms and dysfunctions that have hindered your growth, guiding you towards a healthier and more fulfilling existence.Within these pages, you'll find thought-provoking messages that stir your soul and ignite your inner fire. Each day, you'll embark on a self-evaluation journey, exploring the depths of your being and embracing the transformative power of healing. With 30 principles and 30 steps, this book offers a roadmap to a healed heart, one that beats with resilience, authenticity, and joy.Dear Broken Heart is not just a book-it's a lifeline, a lifeline that pulls you from the depths of despair and propels you towards a future brimming with possibility. It's a beacon of hope, reminding you that you have the power to rewrite your story, reclaim your worth, and cultivate a life of love and purpose.

Addictive behaviors are often the result of loss-the loss of a job, the death of a loved one, or even the end of a romantic relationship. This fully revised and updated second edition of The Mindfulness Workbook for Addiction offers readers an effective program for working through their addiction and grief with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). Written by two VA psychologists, this workbook is effective for treating the emotion dysregulation, stress, depression, and grief that lie at the heart of addiction.

** THE NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER AND SUNDAY TIMES ART BOOK OF THE YEAR 2023 **A revelatory portrait of a great museum and the moving story of one guard's quest to find solace and meaning in art'Who would have thought that the outstanding art book of you would have been written not by a curator or an art historian or even an artist - but by a museum guard?' Sunday TimesWhen Patrick's older brother dies at twenty-six, all he wants is to retreat. So, he does. He quits his job and seeks refuge in the most beautiful place he can think of: New York's Metropolitan Museum of Art.All the Beauty in the World recounts Patrick's time as a museum guard, keeping quiet vigil over some of our greatest treasures and uncovering the Met's innermost secrets. As his connection to the art and the life that swirls around it grows, so does Patrick - and gradually he emerges transformed by heartbreak, community and the power of art to illuminate life in all its pain, pleasure and hope.'As luminous as the old masters paintings' Daily Mail'Consoling and beautiful' Guardian'Marvellous' Daily Telegraph'A beautiful tale about beauty. It is also a tale about grief, balancing solitude and comradeship, and finding joy in both the exalted and the mundane' Washington Post*New York Times bestseller, Nov 24

I received a call no daughter wants to receive: Dad was ill and they had moved him to ICU. His nurse gave me an update and said if I wanted to see him alive, I needed to come as soon as possible. This book is about the events that followed. Some topics in this book: End of life decisions - Grieving well the death of a family member - Dealing with wrongful death - Depression vs Grief - Steps recovering from loss - and more"Glory in the Passing is a unique life manual for dealing with grief. This book has many practical, Biblical and Spirit-led answers. Erin Francis has taken on the challenge of the death process with such wonderful and insightful details in her own father's passing."Dr. Steven James Ingram, Sr., Pastor of Word of Faith Family Church"Amazing book! This book will not only help you to prepare your heart, and guide you through the many decisions that need to be made, but also will help with the inevitable struggles and questions after the passing. Best of all, it will help you find the right path to assure you of seeing your loved one again in eternity." Mary Lou Judd, Business Manager "Erin has a gift of beautifully taking the tough things in life and making them palatable. Erin has not only depicted the story of her Dad's passing, but also remarkably addressed the questions that run through people's mind after the loss of a loved one. It was healing for me as I read through the pages. I believe you will also find healing and restoration in your journey."Pastor Starlene Martin, Inspiration Bible Church"Our culture shuns conversations that concern death and dying and this leaves many people vulnerable, shocked, and depressed when a loved one passes away. Erin has done all of us a great service to talk about life, living, and the day we step over to the other side." Pastor Greg Martin, Inspiration Bible Church"Erin is truly honest and vulnerable with her feelings yet also encourages you in this Scripture packed book. What Erin shares will not only help you with your own grief, but it will encourage you not to stay in that place forever." Amy Martin, Author of Journey To Motherhood "In reading this exceptional book you will gain knowledge, love, and freedom if you have lost a loved one and are grieving. Erin's writing is felt deeply, and even though it's a heavy topic, it brings joy. You will be blessed." Karin Grazian, Patient Account Services "Glory In The Passing is insightful and full of wisdom. It will bring tears and laughter. If you have gone through grieving this book is worth the read. It will encourage you that with God you will make it through!" Tom "Cowboy" Grazian, Technician

The dead want to be heard, and they call upon me to get urgent messages through to their loved ones. Often, just in the nick of time, I hear a voice calling out because of impending doom. It might be as serious as an approaching suicide attempt, or as simple as a missing will that needs to be found. This little book is a collection of six short stories about six separate spirits that called upon me to prevent tragedy from striking.Debbie Mannon's life changed in 2012 when her gifts of mediumship ignited and became her life's focus.

Have you experienced the pain of losing a family member to cancer? Have you faced the daunting challenge of navigating grief and betrayal simultaneously? Are you longing to break free from the grip of sorrow and find the path to healing? Keep reading... this book is for you! Introducing... The Secret Lies of Life. Join Ashley, a sixteen-year-old high school sophomore, as she shares her deeply personal story of resilience and transformation. When her beloved grandmother succumbs to breast cancer, Ashley's world shatters. Yet, her journey towards healing takes an unexpected turn when she discovers startling revelations about her granddad, challenging her understanding of family and trust.In this poignant and empowering book, Ashley invites you to accompany her as she navigates the complex web of emotions, learns to heal her wounds, and embarks on a profound journey of forgiveness. Through her experiences, you'll find solace, inspiration, and practical guidance to overcome grief, betrayal, and the shackles of pain.The Secret Lies of Life is a touching narrative that explores the depths of human emotions and the power of forgiveness. It serves as a beacon of hope, reminding us that even in the darkest of times, healing and transformation are possible. Embark on this transformative journey with Ashley and discover the strength within you to heal, forgive, and create a brighter future for yourself.

The only way to deal with grief is to go through it. (Welcome to) The Sh!t Club is an honest story about a man struggling with worthiness, belonging, and control, only to be transformed through his devastating blessing. This book invites you into the heart of loss and healing when Jason's world is undone by the stillborn death of his son, Ezra. Whether you are mere days or many years into your journey with loss and grief, this book will give you a sense of recognition and encouragement that you are not alone as it guides you into the healing path of acceptance, vulnerability, and embrace.Here's What Other's Had to Say About It: "This is an important book, sharing a journey of love, loss and healing that will help so many other parents who are members of this club that no one wants to be a part of." ~ Julie Cole, Co-Founder of Mabel's Labels and Best-Selling Author of Like a Mother."In a culture of men struggling to share their feelings, Jason steps outside of the pressure and courageously and generously invites us into his journey." ~Dr. Karima Joy, Grief Researcher and Therapist"Raw, rattling, and relatable. Whether you're seeking validation as a fellow loss dad or the loved one of a loss dad hoping to grasp a greater understanding, there is something of immense value for you in this book." ~Rob Reider, Co-Founder of the Sad Dads Club"A heartbreakingly beautiful memoir on love, vulnerability, community and grief." ~Melissa Sulley, Certified Pregnancy and Infant Loss Grief Coach and Founder of Josiah + Co."This book will heal families! Jason's powerful, honest, and compelling story of losing his son reminds us that we have the capacity to hold both immense love and profound grief - the brutal with the beautiful." ~ Sean Aiken, Co-Founder of Rad-Dad Collective and Author of One-Week Job Project"Jason's journey through grief is at the same time very personal but also relatable to those who have experienced similar loss. His message of hope and reflection, as well as acceptance, should help others who find themselves in this (paraphrasing Jason) "awful club." ~Kathy Buckworth, Award-Winning Author of books like I Am So The Boss of You and Podcast Host of Go To Grandma

"The Grief Recovery Handbook: How to Cope with Loss and Move On" is an invaluable resource for individuals facing the complexities of grief and loss. In this empathetic and insightful guide, readers will find a roadmap to navigate the often overwhelming emotions and challenges that accompany loss.Grief takes many forms, from the profound sorrow of losing a loved one to the heartache of divorce, the upheaval of job loss, or the pain of traumatic experiences. No matter the type of loss you're grappling with, this book provides a compassionate and comprehensive approach to healing.The book delves into the intricacies of grief, offering a deep understanding of the emotional and physical impact it can have on individuals. It dispels common misconceptions about grief and highlights the importance of addressing it openly and honestly. Readers will discover that their emotions are valid and that it's essential to embrace them as part of the healing process.One of the core strengths of this book is its practical guidance. It explores healthy coping mechanisms, emphasizing the importance of self-care and the dangers of avoidance. Readers will learn how to identify and implement strategies that promote emotional well-being and foster resilience.Building a strong support system is a cornerstone of healing, and this book provides guidance on nurturing relationships during times of grief. It emphasizes the value of seeking professional help when needed and offers insights into the therapeutic value of sharing feelings with friends and professionals.Readers will also find guidance on honoring and remembering loved ones in meaningful ways, creating positive rituals, and preserving memories. The book goes beyond addressing the pain of loss to help readers rebuild their identities, discover their strengths, and embrace change and growth.Setting goals and rediscovering aspirations are essential steps in the journey toward recovery, and this book offers practical advice on finding purpose and meaning after loss. It also explores the transformative power of forgiveness, allowing readers to let go of resentment and guilt, and ultimately find closure and peace.The book encourages readers to embrace joy and pleasure once more, striking a balance between grief and joy. It acknowledges the complexities of navigating love and dating after loss, providing insights into managing these complexities with grace and understanding.Legacy and giving back are themes woven throughout the book, emphasizing the positive impact individuals can have by helping others in memory of their lost loved ones. The book also addresses special circumstances of grief, including the loss of a child, sudden loss, and grief in the context of trauma.Spirituality plays a significant role in many people's grief journeys, and the book explores different spiritual perspectives on grief, offering solace and comfort to those who seek it. It encourages readers to reconnect with their spiritual beliefs as a source of strength and healing.As grief evolves with time, the book provides guidance on marking anniversaries and milestones and offers long-term strategies for healing. It culminates with a chapter that summarizes key takeaways and encourages continued self-care, offering inspiration and hope for the future."The Grief Recovery Handbook: How to Cope with Loss and Move On" is not just a book; it is a compassionate companion on the path to healing. It speaks directly to the heart and soul of anyone who has experienced loss, offering practical tools, emotional support, and a message of hope. Whether you are in the early stages of grief or further along in your journey, this book is a source of solace and guidance to help you navigate the challenges of grief and move toward a brighter tomorrow.

We all have stories to tell, happy, funny, sad. We live them; they make up the fabric of our lives. Sometimes we share them with our friends, families, those we come into contact with each day. Sometimes we choose to write our stories down and let others read them.This is a small collection of my stories - memories, reflections, and poems written over a number of years which open up some of the 'Reuben-shaped' places in my life.Reuben was our baby who died before he had a chance to live his life.I have written in the hope my stories will touch the hearts of anyone who is experiencing their own heartache, sorrow, or grief. May the sharing of myself be a gift to you.

This story is about Saylor Irene, our 4th granddaughter born mid-way through the Covid pandemic. Prior to her birth we learned of the serious chromosomal abnormalities she would be born with which would shorten her life. This story is also about our faith in Jesus Christ and how my faith grew as I wrestled with God, praying for her healing.Saylor's life mattered: she was here; she was loved; and her life made a difference.

Nothing will prepare you for this. Leo Storm, a hospice nurse, takes you on a twenty-four-hour ride-along where one patient's death turns into six. Each stop throws a different set of challenges at him, and he must adapt to each unique environment. A true story, the day teaches Leo a thing or two about life, death, and himself. You might laugh and cry. You might even learn a thing or two about yourself.

"I have learned so much about grief - yet I know very little. This book is not advice and certainly not answers. I had several goals in mind when I began this project: Provide Space: I'm a firm believer that less is very often more. The last thing many want are more words, more advice, and more "you shoulds." We all need to talk less and listen more. How often we deeply desire someone to ask us how we are and genuinely care enough to listen to our honest response. My hope is for "Into the Water" to offer you space to reflect, pray, rant, color, design, create, laugh, cry, and heal ~ space for what you need in your moment of need... space for your journey to be your own. Share: For those interested in the journey, experiences, and thoughts of others, I invite you to take part in experiences of others who selflessly share part of their walk. Each one of us will experience grief differently ~ as we should, but we can also learn from each other if we are open to doing so. Encourage: I'm a fixer to a fault as my family knows all too well. It takes prayer and great restraint to stop and listen rather than jump in and do. Often times, what others need from us is to merely listen, be present, and allow them to share their struggles without a quick-fix being thrown at them. My hope is to encourage you as you process gently remind you that you are deeply loved & most assuredly not alone. A year into my grief journey, I was drowning. I could not get a hold of my emotions and the daily mood swings. I felt like I was failing myself, failing my family, and frankly, on the edge of crash and burn. A sweet friend listened patiently and said it sounded like I was experiencing all the stages of grief daily. Stages of Grief? I read everything I could to better understand myself, but Elisabeth Kübler-Ross' book, "On Death and Dying" was the most helpful. "Into the Water" is broken into 7 sections to reflect 7 stages of grief. May you find Space here, gain something from those who opted to Share, and may you be Encouraged in knowing that our Lord's love is infinite and sufficient."

On March 14, 2017, everything about Felecia Marshall's life as she knew it changed when her daughter Alexia was murdered. At the time, it seemed like a pit that she would never be able to ascend. But God!Reflecting on, and growing from, this experience, she penned the book Grant Me Justice and founded Grant Me Justice: A Voice for the Victim, where she has been given the privilege of connecting with women worldwide who have lost their children to violence.This book is powerfully and compellingly written, as is only possible when one writes from deeply felt and seriously considered experience. A book about the loss of a child to violence could be simply a negative condemnation of that violence and of the people who carried it out. A story of dealing with the court system in a search for justice could be a tale of despair, producing only anger.There is anger to be felt in these stories - righteous anger. There are moments of deep despair. There are evils encountered and wrongs done.But God!This book tells the story of the wrongs. It portrays the evil so you can know it, recognize it, and acknowledge it, but it then goes on to deal with it in light of the gospel, in the light of our God who knows our pain, our anger, even our despair, and walks with us from there to dancing.There are places in this book that will challenge you to consider your own actions. God is found to be the source of justice, but are you ready to be part of bringing that justice to others?Felecia Marshall has chosen to build when she could tear down. She has chosen to move to dancing when she could spend her life in mourning. She has chosen to help others find justice, when she could-justifiably-spend her time in criticizing and complaint.Now she has opened herself up to you through these heartfelt words in the hope of helping you find the same joy.Will you read this and face the challenge?

Es gehört zu den schwersten Momenten im Leben. Wenn es nicht der schwerste Moment überhaupt ist: der Abschied von einem lieben Menschen. Wie soll man damit umgehen? Was kann man hier sagen?Es ist mein Anliegen, Hoffnung in diese Stunden zu bringen, Worte, die wahr und aufmunternd sind. Worte des Menschen, der uns einen Weg "durch den Jordan", über den jeder von uns einmal gehen muss, gebahnt hat.Dieses Büchlein lässt sich leicht vorlesen, oder man liest es alleine. Die Worte darin kommen von dem, der nicht lügen kann, und was uns dadurch über die Heimat gesagt wird, macht Freude und schafft einen tiefen Frieden.Gott ist ein barmherziger und versöhnlicher Vater, der uns die Hand reichen will durch Jesus Christus.

Intellectual arguments don't win hearts. Love Does.We are fighting spiritual battles with man-made tools. We think our words will change a person. We think our theology will prove our point. None of these things are bad, but when we use them as cheap substitutes for true breakthrough, we will see the emptiness of their power.Do you have a situation or person in your life that desperately needs change? Does it feel like the more you push, the more traction you lose? God did not send you on assignment to lose. He wants to partner with you to bring healing to your family and community. And here is a little secret...you already have the tools He can use to bring transformation! But it will be on His terms and not yours. He's looking for surrendered vessels, ready to lay down their seemingly sharp weapons of the flesh for His supernatural ones. Our life, our stories, and our love are what change things in our environments. He doesn't need people to prove Him. He needs people who look like Him. Are you ready to see breakthrough in your life and the lives around you? Christ is ready for His Bride to rise up in supernatural love. He needs us to be His healing oil on earth. Will you join me on a journey of learning how to become ambassadors of His love to a world hungry to know His truth?

On a sleepy Irish island, two teenagers from different worlds collide.

This book will help you face your own death with courage and faith. Some simple things can help ease your mind and bring peace to your heart. Much of the book is written in the first person singular to help you personalise your reflections. There are many prompts for you to write in a notebook or journal your reflections and memories of significant people, places and events in your life, and ideas for your funeral. Dip into the book where and when you want, pondering only one or two paragraphs at a time. It includes readings and meditations from a wide range of perspectives and faith traditions.